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Dear Readers: I LOVE READING YOUR EMAIL!!!! SO, if you'd like to say something about this website, the Email of the Week column or have a different Jewish issue/question on your mind please send it in. I am always looking for emails for future columns and a book I am writing (you will remain anonymous, of course). So, please email me at GilMann@BeingJewish.org just click on the blue letters. I look forward to your emails! 

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Dear Readers,

These columns began on my area of America Online, called:  Judaism Today:  Where Do I Fit?   People anonymously sent me E-Mail, and I began to choose one for a public response in my Jewish E-Mail of the Week column. The column has become quite popular and is now syndicated internationally in many Jewish papers and websites.  I hope you find they help you as you think about the Ethics, Spirituality and Peoplehood components of the Jewish way of Life.  I welcome your comments... see the end of the column.

Gil

PS  Teachers and others, feel free to copy my columns and forward them or use them as you see fit.  Please see the friendly copyright notice at the end.

Belief in God is Foolishness!!!

 

Dear Gil:

I have always been an Atheist, all seventy-one years of my long and very happy life. I can imagine that it would be even better if there were a benevolent Deity taking care of things in general, and me in particular. Life after death would be entertaining, and reincarnation a gas! But these wistful longings--of us relatives of the gorilla and the chimpanzee--are not TRUE!

From my point of view, anybody who switches allegiance from the one religion to another is making a pilgrimage from the Sahara desert to the Gobi. He's covered a lot of ground, but he still winds up in a sterile place, a desert.

I have never -- not for a moment, or a nanosecond -- believed in Jesus, Krishna, God, Jahveh, prayer, angels, heaven, hell, reincarnation, Original sin, karma, religious dietary rules, fasting, pilgrimage, priests, rabbis, gurus.... I've reached the age of 71, and done very well without wasting any time, money, or emotional energy on Church, Synagogue, Krishna-consciousness raising sessions, masses, prayer meetings or Yom Kippur.

I've been happily married for forty-three years. We've lived in the same beautiful house for forty years (mortgage paid off), our children are grown up and on their own, we have $3,000,000 in our pension funds, we're in reasonably good health.

What would I pray for?

B

 

Dear B:

Thank you for a most thought provoking letter.

You are not the first person to contact me saying "I do not believe in God." If you are looking for an argument--you are not going to get one from me. Not because I agree with you, but rather because I stay away from these kinds of faith debates...they are unprovable and un"win"able.

I don't pretend to know with certainty about God, angels, miracles, karma, heaven, hell etc. And I am leery of people who claim that they definitely know that any of the above exist. At the same time, I don't think you can prove that any of the above do not exist.

Rather than try to convince people to believe one thing or another, I try to convince people to seriously wrestle with their Judaism. After all, we are called the people Israel which means to wrestle with God. This is not a cute word game but a huge theological statement about Judaism. To me, being Jewish means wrestling with our doubts and our choices. Wrestling with God also means struggling to understand whether we are the masters or victims of our fate--or both.

With all of these struggles in mind, I would like to suggest an interesting test of your personal faith or lack of faith in God. The test is posed by author Dennis Prager in the following question: Do you believe that Mother Teresa and the barbarian Nazi medical experimenter Dr. Mengele had the same fate after they died?

Your answer to this question and the level of certainty you have when answering says a lot about your faith in God or a power above.

Personally, I don't want to believe that Mother Teresa and Dr. Mengele had the same ultimate fate and have difficulty believing that they do--but I will confess I am far from 100% certain.

As to your question about prayer, you might think of prayer as a time of self reflection. The word in Hebrew to pray is lihitpalel...which means to judge oneself. Personally, I have yet to meet the person who feels they could not be a better person. For me, this is part of what my prayer includes. One need not believe in God for this type of self-judging prayer.

Additionally, you not need not believe in God to be thankful for your good fortune and recognize that others have less than you (like less than $3,000,000 in pension funds and good health.) Self reflection such as this to me is a noble purpose for prayer with or without faith in God.

Thanks for writing!

Gil



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These columns can be found at www.beingjewish.org.  Not only do I give you permissions to copy these Jewish Email columns...I HOPE YOU WILL and that you share them with others!  All I ask is that you never charge anyone for them and that you also include this little copyright notice.  Thank You!
Ask Gil
Dear Readers: I LOVE READING YOUR EMAIL!!!! SO, if you'd like to say something about this website, the Email of the Week column or have a different Jewish issue/question on your mind please send it in. I am always looking for emails for future columns and a book I am writing (you will remain anonymous, of course). So, please email me at GilMann@BeingJewish.org just click on the blue letters. I look forward to your emails! 

Thanks,
Gil

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